General Rules & Guidelines

In order to maintain a vibe that is conducive to sharing, transparency, building each other up and creating a dynamic energy flow, by joining the group, you automatically agree to the following rules and guidelines:

1.  Keep it Kind and Classy

I know there may be other groups where the vibe is not quite right and the comment sections are lit with shady judgments. I'm sure there is a little "Petty Betty" in all of us, but don't let her get you removed from the group. We are mature in both what we post and how we respond to our fellow members. One gentle reminder will follow the first violation, the second occurrence will result in an automatic removal from the group.

​2. NO  SOLICITING

For starters keep your pyramid schemes to yourself. Anything where someone has to pay up front to get started, has an MLM structure, etc. is strictly prohibited. So are requests for donations of any sort, including links to crowdfunding sites, your CashApp info, and so forth. Please use your own personal Facebook page for these types of posts.

No Sales  Posts or Self-Promotion Is Permitted in This Group
There is a designated day (Saturdays) where you can share freebies or links to current sales promotions offered by your business or legal side hustle. This is done by responding to the proper thread. 

Soliciting another member's info or direct messaging a member who did not request your contact is strictly prohibited. 

The bottom line is that this is NOT a sales mastermind group and having a bunch of posts or responses that are self-promoting in nature impacts the purpose and overall vibe of the group.​​

3. What Can I Post?

In addition to the posts that you submit for approval (more on that below), Monday through Friday there will be a "topic of the day" and you are welcome to join in on the discussion via the comment section. The goal of these topics is to spark stimulating, insightful, and encouraging dialogue within our community. Responding to the "topic of the day" is not a requirement. If you have a suggestion for a "topic of the day" you can submit them to the Group's Admins at any time.

There are select days where a secondary "themed" post will also be shared. These themed posts are:

- My Inspiration Monday
Every Monday we will create a post where in the comments you can share a snippet of your vision board or something you would like to add to your vision board. It could be a house, a car, a person, a quote - whatever you are seeking to manifest in your life.

- Relationship Wisdom Wednesday:
Every Wednesday we will create a post where in the comments you can share your encouraging words, favorite quotes on dating, love, marriage,  etc. and those "what I know for sure" moments that you learned in your relationship journey.

- Fit, Fashion & Fun Friday:
Every Friday we will create a post where in the comments you can share your fitness inspirations  and fashion finds. Ultimately, all of us are out here striving to live our best life. I am a firm believer that Happy+Healthy = Whole.

If we desire to manifest the life and the love that we desire, then it starts with loving ourselves deeply enough to make self-care a top priority. Also, laughter is certainly instrumental to a happier and healthier lifestyle. So this is the post where you can simply share things just for fun and laughs (but still keep it kind and classy).

- Support Small (or not so small) Business Saturday
Every Saturday we will create a post where in the comments you can share the current sales promotions that you are offering, along with any freebies. This is the only post where sales promotions are acceptable.

​However, what's not permitted under this thread are "Follow For Follow" "Like My Page" or "Friend Request" posts. Please generate leads on your own page. 

​Your Posts
Feel free to submit regular posts for daily approval any time. Please keep your regular posts geared toward the overall purpose and vibe of the group. Think dating for the purpose of meeting your spouse, planning your wedding, navigating relationship challenges in general, marriage matters, positive encouragement...you get the picture.

The Admins and/or Moderators reserve the right to remove/hide comments and posts or to simply not approve a post at their own discretion. If your post was not approved or it was removed, it's quite possible that it didn't align with the guidelines for our community. Please don't gripe about it in the comments or send messages to the Admin and/or Moderator. Trust me, it's not personal. 

Prohibited Posts
This is not the community for political discussions, even if there is a connecting topic to our purpose. Posts or comments that spark political debate will be removed. On the flip side, this isn't a mommy group. Unless it's how to navigate a relationship with someone who has children from a previous relationship, etc., then posts about your children or your parenting preferences are not permitted. 

Please note: If you think someone has broken one of the rules or that their post/comment(s) are outside of our community guidelines and doesn't help to maintain the purpose and overall vibe of the group, then please contact the Admin or Moderator not Facebook. We will review the post/comment(s) in question and determine if it warrants removal.

If you are in agreement with the community guidelines and you're committed to helping the group maintain a positive and encouraging vibe that inspires us to manifest the life and the love that we desire, then we welcome you and we'd love for you to join us!